If you're not familiar with the term "gaslighting," it's a form of emotional abuse in which one partner tries to control and manipulate the other by making them question their own reality and memories. Gaslighting can be a subtle form of abuse, and it can be hard to spot if you're not familiar with the signs. 


Here are some examples of gaslighting in marriage:


1. Your spouse tells you that you're being too sensitive, or that you're overreacting to something.


2. Your spouse denies ever saying or doing something, even though you know they did.


3. Your spouse tries to convince you that your memories of past events are wrong.


4. Your spouse tries to make you feel like you're going crazy.


5. Your spouse tries to control what you do, who you see, and where you go.


If you're experiencing any of these things in your marriage, it's important to reach out