Psychologist Ash,

I want to share a problem of mine. I hope you can understand.

Whenever, I sit with a group of people. I feel that I am the odd one out.

No matter how intelligent they are. I feel I should be somewhere else. Working on my projects. Completing my daily do to tasks.

Accomplishing my goals. Reading a Book or perhaps writing one. Improving myself. Just doing anything that does not involve people.

I do not connect with people. I do not know why Accomplishing? Someone told me that I might have Type A behaviour personality. Is this true?

My spouse is a happy and gregarious person. I am not comfortable around his preferred group of people. This is affecting our relationship.

I feel he is happier than me. People make him happy. He is an extrovert. I am an introvert. I love him but I hate people.

Someone told me, all serial killers start like this. Loners like you are more a menace to the society than anyone else.

What can I do? I feel so comfortable in.my own company. I love my kids too. Do I have to join an alliance to give them a positive Childhood experience.

How can I have a social life when being around people just deprives me of all the energy I have.

Thank you,

Always the Odd One Out